Every Christmas I try to add meaning to the holiday. There is so much frenzy and distraction surrounding Christmas that its easy to forget what its all about. My answer to that is to write a meaningful message to be read to my family on Christmas Eve. Here is a synopsis of this year’s message:
The Matryoshka (Russian nesting Dolls)
Each of us is who we are today because of our family. When one of us is down, we lift them up; the pain of one is shared with all. When one of us experiences success, we celebrate; their joy increases our own. Having said that, I believe the greatest gift of family lies in the intimacy of our interaction. The dynamic of rubbing up against each other’s flaws, creates conflict. In those moments we have a choice to make; do I stubbornly hold onto my position, or do I have the courage to question my position? And by questioning we begin to strive for resolve, only then are we able to let go.
Spiritual growth is about letting go, shedding these flaws that trip us up. I liken these flaws to costumes we wear, and the act of shedding costume after costume, until here I am stripped down to my real identity ready to fight for everything worth having, is what being human is all about. The Matryoshka represents this shedding; the outer shell giving way to the next, and the next, until the small solid form is revealed. No longer hollow, but solid.
Each of you has caused me to shed a costume. (I won’t bore you with how each of my children caused me to do this!)
Now our family is blessed with the addition of four more members. Each in turn will challenge not only their respective spouses, but all of us. So we continue to grow by shedding. What becomes greater is that small, solid voice called the soul.
The soul is our conduit to God. Our flaws block this flow, which is why it is necessary to shed them. When our actions and reactions are fed through this conduit we begin to live in peace amid the chaos surrounding us.
(I would enjoy hearing from all of you about what you and your families do to make Christmas meaningful) Happy New Year!
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❤. Happy New Year Mole.
My dear special friend Nancy, I always love ready your blogs. I learn I laugh and I smile. Yes indeed family is where it all begins. You are right with the claws. Layer by layer but what a lovely process. Happy New Year. Love you, Lu
Love you too, girlfriend! And I miss you like crazy!!
Well, we like to play Cards Against Humanity…is that a special, meaningful holiday tradition?
HA! I love that game! I’m coming over next Xmas!